Wednesday, July 11, 2007

Good Manners



A good manner means a courteous manner. Good manners are civilized behavior. Manner means a way of acting or behaving. Good manners are the first mark of good breeding and reflect directly on a person’s upbringing. Good manners are based on consideration for other people. Tact, diplomacy and hospitality – all these are based on good manners.


Good manner makes a man. It leaves impression on the minds of people. People like those who behave courteous. Here are definite must-haves that should be ingrained in your personality.


  • Try to do or say those things only which will be agreeable to others·

  • All cultures have rules, if you violate them, you will be excluded·

  • Wait for your turn to speak·

  • One should not call others by nick names·

  • Always greet someone when they drop in or when you see them·

  • Be polite, don’t hesitate to use magic words like “please”, “thank you” and “you are welcome”.

  • Always be neat and tidy.

  • Always thank those who praise your work or effort.

  • Always be a good sport, no matter the outcome, be pleasant.

  • Allow elders to go first and open the door for them. When proceeding others into a building, don’t let the door slam in the face of those behind.

  • When you sneeze, cough or yawn, do cover your mouth with your hand. Don’t shy to say ‘sorry’.

  • Respect people of different culture, race or religion when they do things differently.

  • No picking your nose, teeth or scratching your body please. Actions speak louder than words.

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